Less small talk. More real talk.
Bona Dating is a deck of carefully crafted question cards designed for people who want dating to feel intentional. Each card is a single, beautiful prompt — the kind of question that makes a first date stop scrolling and start listening.
Whether you're meeting someone new, deepening an early connection, or reconnecting with a partner, Bona Dating helps you skip the script and go somewhere real.
We surface a curated mix from every category. Swipe up and down to discover a new prompt. No two sessions are the same.
Pick a category — Childhood, Values, Intimacy, Money, Future — to stay in one emotional register for the night.
Read the card to your date. Take turns answering. Let silence sit. The best answers usually come after the second sip of wine.
Tap the bookmark on any prompt you love. Your Saved feed becomes your personal shortlist — the questions you want to come back to.
Write down your own honest answers. Bona becomes a quiet journal of how you've grown — what mattered last spring vs. today.
Add each date as their own profile. Log what they said to each question, add notes, a vibe, the day you met. Stop confusing two first dates again.
We host IRL events for people who'd rather meet over a real conversation than a swipe. RSVP for the next one at lu.ma/bonadating.
New questions, behind-the-scenes, and event drops on Instagram at @bonadating.
Bona works as an installable app. Tap "Add to Home Screen" when prompted — it opens instantly, full-screen, no browser bar in the way mid-date.
Found a prompt worth passing on? Share any card directly to a friend, partner, or group chat.
The right question, asked at the right moment, is the shortest path to knowing someone.